Describe Yourself for Online Dating, Job Interviews, Resumes and More
Learning how to describe yourself and others accurately is something we usually have to put some effort into. This seems to be especially true in most western cultures where being honest about our skills, qualities and attributes can be confused with being arrogant, “blowing your own trumpet” and being excessively self indulgent.
(Scroll down for list of 180 adjectives to help you describe yourself.)
If we do learn to describe ourselves we can often forgo self confidence training by being our own confidence guru and simply acknowledging and appreciating our own positive qualities. Describing yourself positively is one aspect in the journey of learning how to find yourself that is essential.
I know from my experience of delivering training programs and seminars on improving confidence and self esteem, that when participants are asked to state just five of their best qualities a hushed embarrassment fills the room. “I don’t know,” is the most common response.
Conversely, we’re all a lot better at listing our faults and failings and can get onto that task without any difficulty! It’s like most of us haven’t even dared to think about the question, “What’s good about me?” – if that’s you, then it’s even more important that you read on.
Well ask yourself now! “What’s good about you?”
How many descriptive words can you come up with? Knowing how to describe yourself is something that comes in very useful especially on resumes, job aplications and in job interviews. On top of that many of us now use dating websites, forums and have profile pages on various websites that ask us to describe ourselves or provide a bio. In the online world the only tools we have available to make an impression are words, so using them to create a good online perception and make the most of your online relationships is important.
An added bonus to knowing how to describe our positive qualitities, is that it helps us combat all the negative talk that goes on in our heads – the voice that continually tells us what and where we’re going wrong.
Why “good” is not so goodIf you are a leader, manager or teacher
One of things that an effective leader will do is help others to identify their positive qualities, because people that feel good about themselves, will be better team members. Instead of using the word “good” all of the time think about a more descriptive adjective you could use. How about, “the way you got round that problem was really creative”, or, “you’re a brilliant mediator – the team works so much more effectively when you are around.”
If you are a parent
As parents it’s our job to help our children recognise their unique personal attributes. Again, being a “good girl” (or boy) is not very descriptive and will not do much to add to your child’s self knowledge, sense of identity or confidence. One of the reasons most of us are so poor at describing our own positive traits is because our parents did not help us identify them. Next time you are thinking of praising your child, why not consider if there is a better word you could use instead of “good”.
If you were looking for information on how to describe yourself physically then I’m sorry because you won’t find that here. What we’re going to do is get to the nitty gritty of who you are and help you find the words to describe yours and others unique qualities.
Words to Describe Yourself (Adjectives)
Because we could all identify with 90% of these adjectives in some situation or other, I’d suggested picking 10 – 15 words that describe how you are most of the time, regardless of the situation. It might be helpful to think about who are you when you are on your own, doing your own thing? There will be very few other people who will identify the exact same combination because we are all different.
Effective Qualities
Honest
Assertive
Attentive
Direct
Broad-minded
Committed
Conscientious
Dynamic
Hard Worker
Persistent
Mature
Methodical
Motivated
Objective
Tenacious
Sociable
Friendly
Realistic
Reliable
Resourceful
Respectful
Responsible
Creative
Confident
Traditional
Trustworthy
Unconventional
Unique
Ecclectic
Positive Qualities
Inventive
Exciting
Thoughtful
Powerful
Practical
Proactive
Productive
Professional
Quality
Quick
Balanced
Achiever
Knowledgeable
Leader
Literate
Logical
Initiator
Original
Outgoing
Particular
Patient
Active
Positive
Consistent
Compassionate
Incredible
Independent
With Integrity
Mediator
Emotional
Cheerful
Forgiving
Sensuous
Generous
Sporty
Devoted
Candid
Rebellious
Cooperative
Industrious
Interesting
Racy
Meditative
Understanding
Quirky
Quixotic
More Effective Qualities
Optimistic
Accomplished
Adept
Analytical
Articulate
Artistic
Self Disciplined
Controversial
Individual
Tolerant
Naive
Green
Unselfish
Sophisticated
Stable
Strong
Successful
Tactful
Talented
Team Player
Fun
Intelligent
Changeable
Passionate
Intense
Intuitive
Upbeat
Vibrant
Funny
Constructive
Customer-oriented
Dependable
Direct
Loyal
More Positive Qualities
Competitive
Political
Social Consciousness
Modest
Courageous
Enthusiastic
Enterprising
Entrepreneurial
Facilitator
Focused
Genuine
Open Minded
Wise
Sensitive
Sense of Humor
Sensible
Sincere
Skilled
Solid
Communicative
Helpful
Fast
Responsible
Results-driven
Results-oriented
Self-reliant
Organised
Knowledgeable
Logical
Personable
Pleasant
Flexible
Adaptable
Persuasive
Perceptive
Insightful
Trustworthy
Easy going
Good listener
Imaginative
Warm
Ambitious
Diplomatic
Curious
Leader
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How I Describe Myself
These are the words I think best describe me:
perceptive
down to earth
open minded
knowledgeable
logical
analytical
quick learner
genuine
warm
inventive
rebellious
direct
generous
insightful
Your List of Positive Qualities
So how did you get on? How does it feel to identify your positive qualities? Good I hope! Put some practice into learning how to describe yourself and you will find an increase in self esteem and confidence and probably an improvement in your relationships too!
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